We had a little unexpected Ballum for us to round out the week - and it was in a family scene like it was at the start of the week. There's cute Lexi interaction, Background Ballum, and some good old fashioned married couple teasing. And of course, forming part of Lola's support team as she… Continue reading 24th November, geezers in shorts (and the week ahead)

Such bravery from everyone last night, but of course Lexi and Lola in particular. Heartbreaking scenes, and now Lexi knows the truth; or Lola's truth at least. It's the morning routine at Lola's house, and Ben's turned up to take Lexi to school, apparently spontaneously as Lola is trying to tell him that she's capable… Continue reading 23rd November, trillion percent

Last night saw Ben trying to persuade Lola that even though he’s found treatment options abroad (and is willing to do whatever it takes to pay for them), they really should tell Lexi the truth; that the cancer isn’t gone and Lola still needs treatment.Tuesday’s episode continues the same day as Monday - Lola’s back… Continue reading 22nd November, prepared

I wasn’t expecting either of Ballum in last night’s episode, so it was great to see them even briefly! And in a really lovely family scene no less. We get a glimpse of the morning routine at Lola’s - the morning of her first radiotherapy session. Lola’s getting Lexi’s bag ready as Billy drops in… Continue reading 21st November, Next Top Undertaker

I want to preface this post a bit before I get into Monday night's ep by saying it is disappointing that we didn’t get more, and I can see why it feels Ben’s story is getting pushed aside for another story that’s fighting for screentime as it is. What I would say though is that… Continue reading 7th November, proper home

A bleak couple of episodes as Lola and the family come to terms with her prognosis, with a couple of Ben appearances. Not saying very much mind; I think he's in shock at the moment. On Wednesday, Lola wakes up from her operation and Jay tells her that Ben's on his way. I wasn't sure… Continue reading 2nd & 3rd November, every step

Not a whole lot of Ben in last night's episode, but enough of him to enable Jay to adjust his headspace (and schedule) and be there for Lola. Jay's all out of sorts as he arrives in the cafe, having to take a note off Billy because he forgot his wallet. Ben's not long after… Continue reading 1st November, priorities

Well, not sure anyone could have guessed Ballum's Halloween outfits, much less that they were based on a suggestion from Stacey! Short but sweet scenes last night as they try to cheer Lexi and Lola up. Ben's at Stacey's burger van with Lexi, getting them some food (probably breakfast before Lexi goes to school, as… Continue reading 31st October, Spooky Wham

Well guys… that happened! Did they talk? Admittedly, no. But the motivation behind it - not wasting time - meant I was actually alright with it. They were confronted with the bigger picture; their own mortality. The things that need to be said can still be said, but right now they need each other, and… Continue reading 27th October, still love you